Green

In class 3 I had a question?? What are living things???  Answer was something like this plants,  animals,  and human being .. Today my question is do we really treat plants has living thing??
From dawn to dusk think of anything and everything it is a boon which plant have given to us ... survival in earth has become feasible only because of plants.. leave about survival, existence would have not been possible ..  But what do we do to that greenery. . We treat as if they are some material ... we just use them and forget to care for them ... "They are so tender they need to  be nurtured"..
In spite scientists discoveries like music therapies,  talk therapies for plants still we just use plants yet don't respect them isn't it pathetic from our side ...
All v would do to those organisms which have given us everything is care... next time wen someone plucks a leaf unnecessarily from a plant, stop him ... wen u see a plant suffering, water it .. let's not do the mistake our ancestors did, let's not cut them unnecessarily... let's grow more trees and plants .. every person has a responsibility to give back which he has got from society, let's be responsible!!!
P.s inspired from rhymes "elaiyellam paritu vittal athrku kooda valikumam" ...

Possessive

          Is any relationship possible without possessiveness???  If I am asked that question, I say a big NO!?
          But after talking to people with great wisdom though I find it very hard to digest I am sharing those thoughts with you ..

          What is love?  Is the foremost question asked here,  its because love is base for every relationship... it sews a beautiful stitch in every relationship... after thinking a lot I got a answer which satisfied my heart ... love is selflessness... LOVE can be nothing else than selflessness ... doesn't our nature of being possessive contradict with the word selflessness...

             When we love something so much all we got to do is love it but not try to possess it ... possessiveness comes only wen u go way ahead of love  ... again my heart fails to understand this philosophy it just keeps on murmuring one thing I am not obsessive I am just possessive ...

             If our love is only a will to possess, it is not love. Then wat is love,  its something where u leave the person to do anything he / she wants,  if the person loves u he will come to u ... if he doesn't u still can love him without having any hard feeling just praying for his good .. though its hard to digest its wat happens in most of our life ...

          Still I feel that its not practical but I somewhere from my heart feel that its true ... truth is always hard to digest likewise being possessive is not love is also hard to digest ...

         My friends let's try giving love and not getting it back ... for a change let's start being donors instead of being beggars ...let's stop being possessive and stop expecting ...

Plsss don't experience it - 2

It was a sunny day,  I was feeling hot sun exactly under my head .. those were tiresome, boring,  monotonous days .. with no surprises from weather or people .. I came home after long day at office.. I was already thinking about next day audit which I am going to assist .. I was totally preoccupied when I came home that I didn't bother to notice a box for me ... it was straight before my eyes yet I didn't notice .. my naughty brother kept on yelling my name .. I was pretty tired to respond to him .. this didn't stop his yelling but only doubled, with no choice left I went to see what he had got for me .. he said that he got a courier in my name .. I thought he was pranking since who is gonna send me courier ... I said I am tired pls don't play with me ..  he said I am not playing really u gotta courier and handed me the parcels ... with utmost no mood to open I opened the parcel finally... wow!!  Omg!!  To my surprise it had a book ... not just any book but book of durjoy datta which I wanted to read very badly because I have read the whole story except for climax ... but this time I opened straight the last page to see whether it had all the pages in it ..
Then I came to know that my brother after reading my blog took effort to get me that book ... "if it is not forever" is a book that I am not going to forget forever ... thanks to my brother for that special gift ...

P.s for those who have not read the part 1 here is the link http://tharikapriya.blogspot.in/2012/07/plsss-dont-experience-it.html?m=0#comment-form

Be aware of what you are wearing???

         Once I went on shopping with my friend .. she was wearing a sleeveless top with little low neck I asked her instantly, " Are you coming to shopping dressed like this" . Her answer was what's wrong with you? 

           Friends do we really think that this dress is gonna project ourself in external environment??? Have we ever thought what people would be talking behind us for wat we are wearing??? Have we ever thought our dress could give a opinion about us????

            At least for guy it doesn't matter but being a gal our dressing matters a lot .. in this society we have always been looked in a odd perspective and to avoid those worst situations only way out is dressing properly..

            I didn't mean that we should wear saree,  I don't mean that we  have to wear traditional but what I mean is select a dress which is comfortable both for you and others who see you ..

             Next time when u buy a new dress be aware of what u r buying and when you are checking ur wardrobe on what u have to wear be aware of what u should wear .. even in case if u r wearing something hot don't forget to carry urself ... pls remember there are people watching us!!! 

What have u done to me???

          After two days of lying down having no motive to do anything, this morning I woke up to see sun already hitting my head ... I went straight to my book shelf and opened a new book it was sudeep nagarkar's " this is the way we met " with no great ideas or hope I started reading it . . Now after 4 hours of reading, my eyes are wet,  not just because it was a true story but it is a story that is faced by utmost every girl in India.

            I have heard lot of friends talk about this to me.. even a very few friends of mine have cried to me of wat they were going through... Does everyone get married to the same person we loved is the question asked here???

              Gals are forced to choose between parents and loved ones.. I don't know what and how painful it is since I have never felt it but I can feel little bit of it ... what kind of life it would be to marry someone wen u have loved someone else deep till yesterday??? I once asked my friend wen u know that ur family is never gonna accept ur love,  why did u even fall in love, she blinked at me and said it happened . I felt pity for her .
    
                These questions will remain unanswered to me??  But all I can do is pray for every person whom I know or don't suffering from this problem .

Friend indeed?!

               Ever felt lonely,  ever felt desperate about doing something great ... I have felt it ... I utmost go through this phase every week but I have a friend who helps me get through my problems, get through my loneliness.

                I got to know this special person when I was in standard one ... actually I was not ready for a friendship that time but it was forced into me .. I thank my mom heartily for introducing such a nice friend.

                  I actually couldn't take that friendship coz I was not matured enough .. I struggled having that friendship.. I used to think why i had to do that but when I understood that it is going to pull me out of all my ups and downs that is going to happen in my life, i started accepting.

                  When I started knowing more about this friend I started liking it so much ... not coz it helped me but it had everything to keep me happy .. sometimes it would surprise me with fantasy, while sometime with thriller, sometime it gave love while most of the time unexpected things ..

                   My friendship started so intimately that I didn't know that there came a stage where I can't be without it .. I came across several people in my life mean time but no one can replace that friendship and no can ever do it at all .

                   I can't thank that special friend because it doesn't need thanks,  it just needs care ... I will care for it forever ...

                   That special friend of mine is books which have been with me through my life... I want everyone to have a special friend who doesn't expect anything from u but just give u everything u want ...

P.s My forced friendship was with Gulliver in Lilliput I got it as gift in kindergarten...

Finally

       It was a tough journey where I had to carry big load and travel in mazes where some where little familiar while the other where totally mystery ... some are misery too ..

       I had too keep my sensory organs open and keen that I don't forget what I have passed through . in the mean time I had to mark with my pen all unknown mazes ... sometimes my back ached ... sometimes my hand and neck .. but only thing that was keeping me to walk was golden lake in the other end of the journey... the journey was a maze that can lead me right to beginning many times ...

        Even wen I wanted to give up many times I couldn't give up because of constant support I was getting from my companion.. finally the journey is over, though I will be knowing whether I reached golden lake will be declared by ICAI after 3 months.. today for ending the journey I am happy ...

P.S journey is my CA exam and golden lake is my results..